About Melissa Mender (She/Her)
Melissa D. Mender, LPCMH helps individuals and families build resilience, find balance, and work through life’s challenges with compassion and evidence-based care. Serving clients across Delaware, Melissa provides therapeutic support tailored to a wide range of needs, including children, teens, adults, and seniors. Whether navigating anxiety, managing ADHD, or recovering from trauma, Melissa collaborates closely with each client to identify goals and create a clear path toward emotional well-being. Melissa brings deep experience in treating anxiety, depression, and trauma-related disorders such as PTSD, offering specialized individual and family therapy options. Her approach is rooted in clinically proven interventions like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), and Family Therapy. She also works with couples, offering relationship-focused counseling that promotes healthier communication and emotional connection. As part of her commitment to comprehensive mental health care, Melissa offers services across various therapy formats including individual, group, couples, and family settings. Melissa has a strong passion for working with individuals affected by Autism Spectrum Disorders, those in adoption and foster care systems, and members of the LGBTQ+ community. These populations often face unique mental health challenges, and Melissa is dedicated to providing affirming, inclusive, and trauma-informed care that respects each client’s lived experience. She brings warmth, understanding, and expertise to her work, helping clients navigate complex emotional landscapes and achieve meaningful change. Outside of her clinical practice, Melissa enjoys spending time in nature, exploring creative outlets, and engaging in activities that promote self-care and mindfulness.
Types of Care & Ages Served
- Individual Therapy: Ages 11-75+
- Couples Therapy: Ages 18-75+
Areas of Focus
Individual Therapy
Get help addressing challenges and improve well-being with a clinician's guidance.
- Anxiety
- Depression/feeling down
- Domestic violence & abuse
- Emotional abuse
- Panic attacks
- Self-esteem
- Stress management
- Ability status
- ADHD
- Aging
- Anger issues
- Attachment issues
- Attention & focus
- Bipolar Disorder
- Body image
- Bullying or harassment
- Career & relationships (mid-life)
- Career & work issues
- Childhood behavioral issues
- Empty nesters
- End-of-life challenges
- Ethnic identity
- Family conflict
- Gender identity
- General relationship issues
- Grief & loss
- Intense mood changes
- Marital stress or divorce
- Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
- Parenthood
- Parenting
- Premarital counseling
- Racial identity
- Retirement
- School avoidance
- School behavioral issues
- Sex & intimacy issues
- Sexual trauma
- Sleep issues or insomnia
- Social injustice
- Stress from ongoing health issues
- Trauma & PTSD
Couples Therapy
Helps partners address relationship conflict and improve communication with a clinician's guidance.
Therapy Types
- Art Therapy
- Attachment-Based Therapy
- CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)
- Mindfulness-Based Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing (MI)
- Parenting Support
- Rational Emotive Behavioral Therapy (REBT)
- Social Skills Training
- Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
- Strength-Based Therapy
Languages
- English
Education
- Ottawa University
- Ottawa University - Ottawa
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Frequently Asked
Questions About
Melissa Mender
Melissa Mender is a Therapist and cannot prescribe medication. However, most LifeStance offices have a Psychiatrist or APN on staff who can prescribe medication if needed.
Melissa Mender only offers in-office visits at this time. To find a provider in your area that offers online telehealth visits, please call us at or search our provider directory.
Yes, Melissa Mender is currently offering in-office visits at the following location: