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Mary Bosker, Psychologist

Mary Bosker, PhD, Psychologist in La Mesa, California

Specialties:
ADHD Focus, concentration & memory General relationship issues LGBTQ+ Marital stress or divorce Other women's health concerns PMS & PMDD +61
Ages Served
6-75+
Does Not Manage Medication
Provides therapy only
Accepts Insurance

About Mary Bosker (She/Her)

Dr. Bosker’s Mission:

– to restore hope to those who have lost hope

– to help people improve their sense of self-worth, value, and purpose in life

– to facilitate healing, recovery, and personal growth in a safe harbor of compassion and understanding

Dr. Mary Bosker is the first in her family to be born in the U.S. and also the first to earn a doctoral degree. She earned her Bachelors degree from Hope College in 1993. She majored in psychology, but also studied various languages and religions, and lived overseas for half a year. In doing so, she gained a deeper understanding of how people from different cultural, ethnic, and religious backgrounds approach life. She subsequently worked at a shelter for homeless women before starting her graduate studies at Southern Illinois University at Carbondale (SIUC).

Dr. Bosker completed her Master of Arts and Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology at SIUC. She then moved to southern California to complete her internship at the University of California San Diego (UCSD). She subsequently completed her postdoctoral fellowship at Aurora Behavioral Healthcare in San Diego. Dr. Bosker has been continuously licensed as a psychologist in the State of California since 2007. She has been with Lifestance Health since 2022.

Prior to joining Lifestance Health, Dr. Bosker worked in a variety of clinical settings, including university counseling centers, crisis houses (short-term residential psychiatric facilities), psychiatric hospitals, residential rehabilitation facilities (for substance abuse), a counseling center for military personnel and their family members, and a military outpatient mental health clinic.

Altogether, Dr. Bosker has been working in the mental health field for almost 30 years. She has successfully helped many, many individuals, ranging in ages and life stages from kindergarten to well past retirement. She has also worked with numerous couples and families. She is dedicated to her mission.

Types of Care & Ages Served

Areas of Focus

Couples Therapy

Helps partners address relationship conflict and improve communication with a clinician's guidance.

  • General relationship issues
  • Marital stress or divorce
  • Premarital counseling
  • Sex & intimacy issues
  • Social skills & communication
  • Ability status
  • ADHD
  • Aging
  • Alcohol use
  • Anger issues
  • Anxiety
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Career & work issues
  • Caregiving
  • Depression/feeling down
  • Domestic violence & abuse
  • Drug/substance use
  • Early adulthood: Independent living or relationships
  • Early adulthood: Starting college or career
  • Eating issues: food deprivation
  • Eating issues: purging/regurgitating
  • Emotional abuse
  • End-of-life challenges
  • Ethnic identity & mental health
  • Family conflict
  • Focus, concentration & memory
  • Gender identity & mental health
  • Grief & loss
  • Hoarding
  • Immigration/cultural status
  • Intense mood changes
  • LGBTQ+
  • Men's health/issues
  • Mental health during perimenopause
  • Mental health related to pregnancy & reproductive health
  • Mental health support for chronic pain
  • Mid-life transitions
  • Military, veteran, and first responder mental health
  • Other addictive behaviors
  • Other women's health concerns
  • Panic attacks
  • Parenting
  • Patterns affecting behavior, emotions and relationships
  • Personality disorders & related conditions
  • Phobias
  • PMS & PMDD
  • Race, culture & mental health
  • Religion, spirituality & mental health
  • Retirement
  • Self-esteem
  • Sexual trauma
  • Sleep issues or insomnia
  • Stress from ongoing health issues
  • Stress management
  • Stress related to discrimination & social injustice
  • Trauma & PTSD

Family Therapy

Improve communication and resolve conflicts within family dynamics with a clinician's guidance.

  • General relationship issues
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital stress or divorce
  • Premarital counseling
  • Ability status
  • Aging
  • Alcohol use
  • Anger issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment issues
  • Body image
  • Bullying or harassment
  • Caregiving
  • Childhood ADHD, attention or focus issues
  • Childhood behavioral issues
  • Depression/feeling down
  • Drug/substance use
  • Early adulthood: Independent living or relationships
  • Early adulthood: Starting college or career
  • End-of-life challenges
  • Ethnic identity & mental health
  • Family conflict
  • Focus, concentration & memory
  • Gender identity & mental health
  • Grief & loss
  • Hoarding
  • Immigration/cultural status
  • Men's health/issues
  • Mental health during perimenopause
  • Mental health support for chronic pain
  • Mid-life transitions
  • Military, veteran, and first responder mental health
  • Other addictive behaviors
  • Other women's health concerns
  • Panic attacks
  • Parenting
  • PMS & PMDD
  • Race, culture & mental health
  • Religion, spirituality & mental health
  • Retirement
  • School behavioral issues
  • Self-esteem
  • Sexual trauma
  • Sleep issues or insomnia
  • Social skills & communication
  • Stress from ongoing health issues
  • Stress management
  • Stress related to discrimination & social injustice
  • Trauma & PTSD
  • Unhealthy eating habits

Individual Therapy

Get help addressing challenges and improve well-being with a clinician's guidance.

  • ADHD
  • Focus, concentration & memory
  • Mental health during perimenopause
  • Other women's health concerns
  • PMS & PMDD
  • Sexual trauma
  • Trauma & PTSD
  • Ability status
  • Aging
  • Alcohol use
  • Anger issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment issues
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body image
  • Bullying or harassment
  • Career & work issues
  • Caregiving
  • Childhood ADHD, attention or focus issues
  • Childhood behavioral issues
  • Dementia & memory concerns
  • Depression/feeling down
  • Domestic violence & abuse
  • Drug/substance use
  • Early adulthood: Independent living or relationships
  • Early adulthood: Starting college or career
  • Eating issues: binging
  • Eating issues: food deprivation
  • Eating issues: purging/regurgitating
  • Emotional abuse
  • End-of-life challenges
  • Ethnic identity & mental health
  • Family conflict
  • Gender affirming care evaluations
  • Gender identity & mental health
  • General relationship issues
  • Grief & loss
  • Hair pulling & skin picking
  • Hoarding
  • Immigration/cultural status
  • Intense mood changes
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital stress or divorce
  • Men's health/issues
  • Mental health related to pregnancy & reproductive health
  • Mental health support for chronic pain
  • Mid-life transitions
  • Military, veteran, and first responder mental health
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
  • Other addictive behaviors
  • Panic attacks
  • Parenting
  • Patterns affecting behavior, emotions and relationships
  • Personality disorders & related conditions
  • Phobias
  • Premarital counseling
  • Race, culture & mental health
  • Religion, spirituality & mental health
  • Retirement
  • School behavioral issues
  • Self-esteem
  • Self-injury or cutting
  • Sex & intimacy issues
  • Sleep issues or insomnia
  • Social skills & communication
  • Stress from ongoing health issues
  • Stress management
  • Stress related to discrimination & social injustice
  • Unhealthy eating habits

Therapy Types

  • CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy)
  • Clinical Evaluations for Gender Affirming Care
  • Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy for Insomnia (CBT-I)
  • Existential Psychotherapy
  • Faith Based Therapy
  • Humanistic Therapy
  • Mindfulness-Based Therapy
  • Motivational Interviewing (MI)
  • Narrative Therapy
  • Parenting Support
  • Social Skills Training
  • Solution-Focused Brief Therapy
  • Strength-Based Therapy

Languages

  • English
  • French

Education

  • Southern Illinois University Carbondale

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Mary Bosker, Psychologist in La Mesa, California

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Psychologist in La Mesa, California

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