Psychologist in Tacoma, Washington Dr. Lili Kim, Psychologist
Gender Identity: Female (She/Her)
Ages Served: 18-75+
Appointments: In-office and Online
Manages Medications: No, provides therapy only
Accepts Insurance: Yes - View accepted plans
Dr. Lili Kim, Psy.D.
Specializes In:
Dr. Lili Kim helps adults and couples across Washington navigate emotional challenges, strengthen relationships, and build healthier patterns that support long-term well-being. She offers a grounded, compassionate therapeutic space where clients can explore concerns such as anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, and relationship stress while developing practical strategies to move forward with confidence and clarity. Dr. Kim works extensively with life transitions, including midlife adjustments, later-life changes, and reproductive challenges that can affect emotional wellness. She also supports individuals managing substance use concerns, grief, and a wide range of mood-related difficulties. Her clinical style balances warm, attuned listening with evidence-based interventions that promote insight, resilience, and meaningful behavioral change. A core focus of Dr. Kim’s work is treating complex mood disorders and eating disorders. She is deeply committed to helping clients understand the mind-body connection, strengthen emotional regulation skills, and rebuild a healthier relationship with themselves. She also brings substantial expertise in supporting clients through major life transitions, offering a steady therapeutic presence during periods of uncertainty, loss, or identity shifts. Dr. Kim provides affirming care to LGBTQ+ individuals and offers additional experience supporting both men and women through a variety of emotional and relational concerns. She integrates Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavior Therapy, mindfulness-based approaches, and Couples/Marital Counseling to ensure that care is tailored to each person’s needs.
Outside her clinical work, Dr. Kim enjoys reading across many genres, spending time in nature, listening to music, practicing mind-body techniques, and being with her family—activities that help her stay grounded and connected.
Types of Care & Ages Served
- Couples Therapy: Ages 22-64
- Individual Therapy: Ages 18-75+
Areas of Focus
Couples Therapy
Helps partners address relationship conflict and improve communication with a clinician's guidance.
- Men's health/issues
- Sex & intimacy issues
- Anxiety
- Body image
- Career & relationships (mid-life)
- Career & work issues
- Depression/feeling down
- Empty nesters
- Ethnic identity
- Family conflict
- General relationship issues
- Grief & loss
- Immigration/cultural status
- LGBTQ+
- Marital stress or divorce
- Panic attacks
- Parenthood
- Parenting
- Premarital counseling
- Racial identity
- Self-esteem
- Sexual trauma
- Social injustice
- Stress management
- Trauma & PTSD
Individual Therapy
Get help addressing challenges and improve well-being with a clinician's guidance.
- Anxiety
- Focus, concentration & memory
- Menopause & perimenopause
- Other women's health concerns
- Panic attacks
- PMS & PMDD
- Racial identity
- Stress management
- Aging
- Bipolar Disorder
- Body image
- Career & relationships (mid-life)
- Career & work issues
- Depression/feeling down
- Domestic violence & abuse
- Eating issues: binging
- Eating issues: food deprivation
- Eating issues: purging/regurgitating
- Emotional abuse
- Empty nesters
- Ethnic identity
- Family conflict
- General relationship issues
- Immigration/cultural status
- Intense mood changes
- LGBTQ+
- Marital stress or divorce
- Parenthood
- Patterns affecting behavior, emotions and relationships
- Personality disorders
- Premarital counseling
- Retirement
- Self-esteem
- Sex & intimacy issues
- Sexual trauma
- Social injustice
- Sports performance
- Trauma & PTSD
Insurances Accepted
- Aetna
- Carelon (Beacon)
- Centivo
- Claritev (MultiPlan PHCS)
- Evernorth (Cigna)
- First Choice
- HealthSmart
- Kaiser Permanente Washington
- MediNcrease Health Plans (MHP)
- Northwell Direct
- Optum (UnitedHealthcare)
- Partners Direct Health
- Premera Blue Cross
- Provider Network of America (PNOA)
- Quest Behavioral Health
- Regence BlueShield
- Sana Benefits
- TELUS Health (BHS)
- TriWest Healthcare Alliance
- Tricare West (TriWest)
Languages
- English
Education
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Antioch University
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Alliant International University
FAQs
Please call us at 253-201-3831 to schedule an appointment with Dr. Lili Kim.
Dr. Lili Kim generally accepts new patients but there could be a waitlist.
Please call 253-201-3831 to find out Dr. Lili Kim's schedule and availability.
LifeStance Health providers accept most commercial insurance plans that are offered in the states where we offer services, including telehealth. Please see the following list of insurances accepted by Dr. Lili Kim:
- Aetna
- Carelon (Beacon)
- Centivo
- Claritev (MultiPlan PHCS)
- Evernorth (Cigna)
- First Choice
- HealthSmart
- Kaiser Permanente Washington
- MediNcrease Health Plans (MHP)
- Northwell Direct
- Optum (UnitedHealthcare)
- Partners Direct Health
- Premera Blue Cross
- Provider Network of America (PNOA)
- Quest Behavioral Health
- Regence BlueShield
- Sana Benefits
- TELUS Health (BHS)
- TriWest Healthcare Alliance
- Tricare West (TriWest)
If you don't see your insurance listed, please contact us at 253-201-3831 to see how we can help.
Dr. Lili Kim is a Psychologist and cannot prescribe medication. However, most LifeStance offices have a Psychiatrist or APN on staff who can prescribe medication if needed.
Dr. Lili Kim works at:
Yes, Dr. Lili Kim does offer online telehealth visits.
Yes, Dr. Lili Kim is currently offering in-office visits at the following location: