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Therapist in New York, New York Deborah Shlider, Therapist

Gender Identity: Female

Ages Served: 15-75+

Appointments: In-office and Online

Manages Medications: No, provides therapy only

Accepts Insurance: Yes - View accepted plans

Deborah Shlider, Therapist

Deborah Shlider, LCSW, MSW

Specializes In:

Caregiving
Family conflict
Parenting
Sex & intimacy issues
Social skills & communication
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Deborah Shlider is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with LifeStance Health, offering compassionate and evidence-based therapy to individuals, couples, and families across New York. She helps adults (from age 18-74 ) navigate life’s challenges, providing a warm, safe and supportive environment for healing and growth. Deborah is a licensed psychotherapist and clinical social worker (LCSW) dedicated to helping clients manage anxiety, depression, family conflict and relationship difficulties through a balanced approach that fosters self-awareness, resilience, and empowerment. Deborah specializes in working with individuals and couples who face complex emotional and situational stressors, including those dealing with chronic depression and anxiety, past trauma, relationship issues, communication and parenting challenges. She is passionate about guiding clients through these experiences with care and clarity, helping them develop effective coping strategies and restore a sense of control and confidence. Her therapeutic approach integrates Dynamic Psychotherapy with Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Radical Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and Brief Solution Focused Therapy (SFT) to support personal insight and change, and focus on building self- esteem and boundaries while emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and self care. Deborah also offers couples and family therapy, drawing on her expertise to strengthen empathetic communication, rebuild trust, and promote healthier relationship dynamics. She works extensively with diverse populations, including members of the LGBTQ+ community, military veterans, the elderly and individuals from multicultural backgrounds. Deborah provides a culturally attuned perspective that enriches her therapeutic work with clients navigating identity, belonging, and cross-cultural transitions. Outside of her professional practice, Deborah enjoys swimming, bicycling, hiking, cooking, traveling, socializing with friends, and relaxing with a good Netflix series. These passions reflect her belief in balance, connection, and self-care, values she encourages in her clients.

Types of Care & Ages Served

Areas of Focus

Individual Therapy

Get help addressing challenges and improve well-being with a clinician's guidance.

  • ADHD
  • Adoption & foster care
  • Aging
  • Anger issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment issues
  • Attention & focus
  • Bipolar Disorder
  • Body image
  • Career & relationships (mid-life)
  • Career & work issues
  • Caregiving
  • Chronic pain-related issues
  • Depression/feeling down
  • Detachment/disconnection
  • Dissociative disorders
  • Empty nesters
  • Ethnic identity
  • Family conflict
  • Fertility
  • First responder stress
  • Focus, concentration & memory
  • Gambling
  • General relationship issues
  • Grief & loss
  • Hoarding
  • Immigration/cultural status
  • Intense mood changes
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital stress or divorce
  • Men's health/issues
  • Menopause & perimenopause
  • Military & veteran
  • Other addictive behaviors
  • Other women's health concerns
  • Panic attacks
  • Parenthood
  • Parenting
  • Patterns affecting behavior, emotions and relationships
  • Personality disorders
  • PMS & PMDD
  • Pornography/sexual behaviors
  • Post-partum depression & anxiety
  • Pre-conception
  • Pregnancy
  • Pregnancy loss
  • Premarital counseling
  • Racial identity
  • Religion & spirituality
  • Retirement
  • Self-esteem
  • Sex & intimacy issues
  • Sexual trauma
  • Sleep issues or insomnia
  • Social injustice
  • Social skills & communication
  • Stress from ongoing health issues
  • Stress management
  • Trauma & PTSD
  • Unhealthy eating habits
  • Video game/internet

Family Therapy

Improve communication and resolve conflicts within family dynamics with a clinician's guidance.

  • Caregiving
  • Family conflict
  • Parenting
  • Ability status
  • Adoption & foster care
  • Aging
  • Anger issues
  • Attachment issues
  • Body image
  • Career & relationships (mid-life)
  • Chronic pain-related issues
  • Depression/feeling down
  • Empty nesters
  • Ethnic identity
  • Fertility
  • First responder stress
  • Focus, concentration & memory
  • General relationship issues
  • Grief & loss
  • Immigration/cultural status
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital stress or divorce
  • Men's health/issues
  • Menopause & perimenopause
  • Military & veteran
  • Other women's health concerns
  • Parenthood
  • Patterns affecting behavior, emotions and relationships
  • Personality disorders
  • PMS & PMDD
  • Post-partum depression & anxiety
  • Pre-conception
  • Pregnancy
  • Pregnancy loss
  • Premarital counseling
  • Racial identity
  • Religion & spirituality
  • Retirement
  • Self-esteem
  • Sex & intimacy issues
  • Sexual trauma
  • Social injustice
  • Social skills & communication
  • Stress from ongoing health issues
  • Trauma & PTSD

Couples Therapy

Helps partners address relationship conflict and improve communication with a clinician's guidance.

  • Sex & intimacy issues
  • Social skills & communication
  • Adoption & foster care
  • Anger issues
  • Anxiety
  • Attachment issues
  • Career & relationships (mid-life)
  • Career & work issues
  • Caregiving
  • Depression/feeling down
  • Empty nesters
  • Family conflict
  • First responder stress
  • General relationship issues
  • Grief & loss
  • LGBTQ+
  • Marital stress or divorce
  • Military & veteran
  • Panic attacks
  • Parenthood
  • Parenting
  • Premarital counseling
  • Self-esteem
  • Sexual trauma
  • Stress management
  • Trauma & PTSD

Languages

  • English

FAQs

Please use our online form to schedule an appointment with Deborah Shlider. You can also call 631-323-6546 to have someone assist you.

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