Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) is a self-applied technique that combines elements of Eastern healing modalities and Western psychology. It involves gently tapping on specific points on the body while bringing mindful attention to a feeling, belief, or physical sensation you want to address and saying a series of statements out loud.
The points you tap on (usually on the head, face, hands, and chest) are similar to some of the ones stimulated in acupuncture or acupressure. These “acupoints” are based on concepts from traditional Chinese medicine that there are twelve meridians through which energy is believed to flow throughout the body. The general idea is that the physical stimulation of tapping, in combination with mindfulness, awareness and phrases, helps shift your emotional or energetic state.
You’ll see a lot of creative variation when it comes to the phrasing used. But generally speaking, you want to start with a setup statement that both names the feeling or issue and encourages self-acceptance. So if you’re feeling really anxious about a work presentation, for example, you might say “Even though I feel anxiety in my body, I fully and completely accept myself.”
With each round of the tapping sequence, you can slightly shift the statement to gradually bring yourself towards relief or the desired emotional state. So you might say, “Even though I’m feeling this anxiety in my body, I am open to letting it go now, or “Even though I feel a lot of anxiety, I am allowing peace into my body now.” You can adjust the phrases to use words that resonate personally for you or follow along with scripts available online.
The steps of typical session might look something like this:
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Identify the issue you want to work on.
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Rate your current level of emotional distress (e.g. 7 out of 10).
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Use your fingers to lightly tap on the series of points.
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At the same time, say statements that help you acknowledge, accept, and then progressively process and release the feeling.
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Rate the intensity again.